The Relationship Reset
A guided first step toward deeper connection
Proven - Join hundreds of couples on their intimacy journey
Expert Guidance- Created by an experienced professional
Science backed - Based on the science of lasting love and desire
Reaching out for therapy isn’t easy and most couples wait far too long. The fact that you’re here means you already know something needs to change. That's powerful.
But maybe therapy still feels like too big a leap.
Maybe the cost isn’t realistic right now.
One of you feels more motivated than the other.
Or maybe you simply don’t know what therapy would even look like.
That’s exactly why this course exists. To give you space, structure, and support to reconnect and get clearer - gently, practically, and together.
This isn’t generic advice. It’s based on 15+ years of therapy with real couples. And it’s designed to meet you where you are, whether you choose to start therapy, wait, or decide another path forward.
Why it matters to start now:
Many couples put off getting support until they feel stuck in cycles they can’t break. But research shows that early, intentional action gives you the best chance of long-term success. The couples who thrive aren’t the ones in less pain, they’re the ones who came prepared and engaged.
That’s what this course gives you: a head start. So you don’t waste months circling the same arguments, falling into blame, or feeling stuck. Instead, you’ll have tools, clarity, and confidence to move forward together.
Here’s what changes when you have the right support
Feel Clearer About What’s Next
Instead of staying stuck in indecision, you’ll have a shared understanding of where your relationship stands — and what your next step should be.
✔ Know if therapy is the right next step
✔ Feel more on the same page about the issues
✔ Understand your goals as individuals and as a couple
Have Tools to Talk Without It Turning into a Fight
You’ll learn how to open conversations gently, avoid the usual communication traps, and actually feel heard.
✔ Recognise the patterns that keep you stuck
✔ Learn the difference between “openers” and “closers”
✔ Try out new ways to share and respond to each other
Feel More Emotionally Connected
Even if things have been tense or distant, you’ll begin to rebuild emotional closeness — without needing to solve everything first.
✔ Reflect on what brings you together
✔ Practice small rituals that create safety and warmth
✔ Reconnect through appreciation, not pressure
Understand What’s Going On With Desire
If sex or intimacy has felt awkward, mismatched, or just off, you’ll learn what could be affecting it — and how to gently shift that.
✔ Learn how desire actually works (it’s not just spontaneous)
✔ Identify brakes and accelerators
✔ Reduce shame or blame around intimacy
Feel More Confident and In Control
You’ll stop wondering if you’re “doing it wrong” — and start feeling more capable of moving forward, whatever that looks like for you.
✔ Understand what to expect from therapy
✔ See how change actually happens (and why it often doesn’t)
✔ Begin a proven, research-based process used successfully by hundreds of other couples
Even if you choose not to continue with therapy right now, this course can help provide clarity, confidence and action steps that make a difference.
Why I created this course — and how I know it works.
After 15 years of working with couples, I’ve seen the same struggle again and again: the hardest part isn’t therapy itself, it’s getting started. Too often couples arrive unprepared, disconnected, and anxious about what therapy might bring up — and that makes change slower and harder.
I knew there had to be a better way.
That’s why I created this course: to give couples a softer landing, a clearer map, and a way to begin gently together.
My approach combines evidence-based methods like the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy with real-world experience supporting hundreds of couples — from “we’re not sure this can be saved” to “we want to make a good relationship even better.”
In this course, I’ll introduce you to the same proven tools that help couples rebuild trust, rekindle intimacy, and feel emotionally close again — so you can start your journey with clarity and confidence.
COUPLES THERAPIST & SEXOLOGIST
Hi, I'm Isiah McKimmie
For the past 15 years, I've been helping couples to reconnect, reignite desire and feel like a team again.
As one of the most qualified and experienced sex and relationship experts in Australia, I've built my reputation on getting my clients results.
Master’s Degree in Relational Psychotherapy
Master’s Degree in Science of Medicine (Sexual Health / Psychosexual Therapy)
Postgraduate Diploma in Sexology
Extensive advanced training
I want you to know there’s hope.
I’ve helped countless couples work together to have a happy relationship again.
I would love to support you too.
Isiah.xx
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Is This Course Right for Us?
This course is for you if:
You’ve reached out for help — but still feel unsure about what to do next
One of you is more motivated for therapy than the other
You’ve lost connection, and conversations feel surface-level or tense
You keep having the same arguments, or avoiding the hard stuff entirely
Intimacy has dropped off — and you’re not sure how to talk about it
You want to feel more like a team again
You’re ready to do something — even if you’re not sure what the outcome will be
And…
You don’t need to be certain that you’ll stay together to benefit from this course. You just need to care enough to try.
Still have questions? Let’s make this easy.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do we need to be doing therapy to do this course?
No — you can use this course whether you’re booked in, still deciding, or just not ready yet. It helps you feel clearer and more connected, either way.
What if my partner isn’t on board yet?
You can do parts of this course on your own. But if your partner’s open to joining you, even a little — this can be a good way to get on the same page.
How long will it take?
You can complete the course in around 2–3 hours total. Many couples do it over a weekend, or spread it across a few evenings.
What if we decide not to do therapy after this?
That’s totally okay. You’ll still walk away with a better understanding of each other, your patterns, and what matters most.
Is this course right for us?
If you’re feeling distant, disconnected, or unsure how to move forward — this is a gentle, powerful place to begin.
This is what happy couples say
Thank you Isiah for lighting my fire!
"I've been with my partner for 7 years, to be completely honest for the last 12 months our sex life has been put on the back burner. After finally seeking help, I find myself filled with love, wearing a massive smile. After making love to my partner this evening we held each other and I could feel my tingling body next to his... It's a chemistry and love we haven’t felt in a long time. Thank you Isiah for lighting my fire!"
Hol, Melbourne
We feel connected and it's more fun.
"Before we saw you, we were struggling with physical connection. We now feel connected now and it's more fun. Initiating sex feels easier and pleasure comes easier. We're excited about where this will go. Thank you for making this process, which could have been much more uncomfortable, as easy as possible."
Laura, USA
I feel more confident and sexy than before.
"Each week a new part of myself was allowed to be discovered as I opened to my sensuality, a wholeness that felt powerful and real. I now feel more confident, sexy and in touch with my body than before. I learned that I am not abnormal... I am beautiful and my desire is still there."
Anon, Melbourne
We have a closer, more intimate, loving and sexual relationship.
"There are so many ways we’ve changed since we started seeing you Isiah, but they’ve all added up to us having a closer, more intimate, loving and sexual relationship with each other."
~ A Happy Husband